Sometimes we all face situations where we feel like we need help; a divine help; a help from above. Sometimes we come across situations where we want guidance. This help, and this guidance, comes in a variety of different forms, but for Christians, it comes from the third person of the trinity, the Holy Spirit. Some of you may be wondering how on earth he helps us in making decisions, in guiding us, and leading us in the right directions. Others of you may be wondering what happens if we ignore the Holy Spirits leading. And others of you may simply want to know what happens when we are in tune with the Holy Spirit.
So first off, the Holy Spirit is present within us if in fact we are Christians. Jesus explains in John 14 “If you love me, you will keep my commandments. And I will ask the Father and he will give you another helper that he may abide with you forever.” Note: The word helper can be translated as ‘comforter’ or ‘advocate’ or ‘consoler.’ And notice that Jesus says that the Holy Spirit will abide with us forever. Abide translated in the greek is a word meno which means to continue with, to dwell with, to endure with, to remain with and to be present with forever. Forever as you know doesn’t mean ‘sometimes’ or ‘only when we want’ but it really does mean FOREVER. If we really do believe, we will have great assurance that God’s Holy Spirit is never going to leave us. The Holy Spirit dwells in ALL believers and will guide them into ALL truth teaching them ALL things and bringing them to remembrance of ALL that Jesus said to them.
The Holy Spirit is Holy, so He is not going to lead you into something that is unholy. It is very easy to get confused as to whether it is God’s spirit speaking to us or an evil spirit as the devil can disguise himself as an ‘angel of light’ (2 Corinthians 11:14). If you feel that the Holy Spirit is guiding you in a certain direction, make sure that everything He is saying is based on the Bible. It is then extremely important that we are saturating ourselves within the word of God so we are familiar with what God says. 1 John 4:1 says, “Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirit to see whether that are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world. By this you know the Spirit of God; every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, and every spirit that does not confess Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you heard was coming and now is in the world already.”
Sometimes you hear those stories of when a Christian is walking down the road and has a sudden urge and inkling to go speak to a certain person. After a bit of hesitancy, they speak to the person and God ends up changing their life. This here is a work of the Holy Spirit. He guided them into speaking to this person when it may seem like the most awkward situation in the world, He turns it right around for the best.
So, first, to be led by the Holy Spirit you must have the Holy Spirit living inside of you. Without the presence of the Holy Spirit, no one can be saved. Titus 3:5 says “...According to His mercy He saved us, through the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit.” You must be a Christian to be led by the Holy Spirit. It says very clearly in Romans 8, that whoever lives according to the flesh, sets their mind on the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their mind on the Spirit. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God. And in Ephesians 1:13 says, “In Him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit.” God has promised us that he will protect and preserve us with His Holy Spirit. It is such an encouragement just to know that.
However, it can be a somewhat delicate task to describe how the Spirit speaks within the heart of a believer. Just as it seems impossible to prove a salvation experience to the unbeliever, so it is impossible to prove the experience of the Spirit’s inward guidance to the unbeliever. Just as God gives different spiritual gifts to different people, likewise, God also speaks in different ways to different people.
First, to be led by the Holy Spirit, you actually have to allow him to lead you. Likewise, if we want to hear from God, we need to listen. You can’t just pray a simple quick prayer and carry on with your life and wish for the best without putting time aside to listen to God.
Some scholars or Biblical teachers say that the Holy Spirit leads by an inner voice. They use this phrase as it is the Holy Spirit speaking to us and comes from within our heart and not from outside of our body. It is described as the still small voice as opposed to physical audible sounds such as the wind, earthquakes and fire as Elijah was expecting in 1 Kings. Instead, he heard God in a gentle breeze.
God’s spirit speaks to our spirit. Romans 8:16 says, “The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God.” This means that our spirit then echo’s the voice of God’s spirit. In other words, The Holy Spirit uses our own Spirit to lead us and guide us. Job 32:8 confirms this. “But it is the Spirit in man, the breath of the Almighty that makes him understand.” It is not the mind which gives man understanding. It is the Spirit in a man with God’s breath.
The inward guidance is like God’s peace which is clearly experienced, but beyond our full ability to put into words. God speaks to us personally. Philippians 4:7 says, “And the peace of God which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” We don’t understand where or how the peace resonates within us, but we know with certainty, that through that God will guard our hearts and minds. If we are making decisions that are in line with God’s plan for our life, we will have a peace about it; a peace which passes all understanding. But as we learnt earlier, the Holy Spirit is the comforter. He comforts us in those decisions that we make. However, when we are heading in a direction that is not lining up with God’s plan we will begin to experience restlessness and anxiety, in other words, lack of peace or comfort.
When we are walking in tune with the Holy Spirit we not only feel God’s peace, but we will begin to notice different fruit; fruit that is pleasing to the Lord, and from the Lord. Galatians 5:22-23 says, ‘The fruit of the Spirit is Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness and Self-Control.’
We are then walking in the direction and on the path that Christ wants us to take. As He says in Proverbs 3:5-6, If we trust in the Lord with all our heart, and acknowledge him, he will lead us in the right direction, making our paths straight.
Sometimes a decision is not exactly written out in black and white, or is not directly addressed in the word. For example, whether a family should move city and start a new job, or stay at their current one. These kinds of decisions are not spelt out in the Bible for us. However God has provided both opportunities, so it is up to them to decide and let God work through them in whatever situation they so choose while possibly seeking guidance from older wiser Christians.
So what happens when we ignore the Holy Spirits leading? In the circumstances we face, we normally get 1 of 3 answers from God. ‘Yes,’ ‘No,’ or ‘Wait.’ When I was 16, I was interested in this guy, and likewise him with me. He asked me out and I felt VERY strongly that the Holy Spirit was telling me ‘No, don’t go there.’ He wasn’t a nice guy and had a little bit of a bad reputation. However, I rejected the Holy Spirits guidance and decided to go on what I felt was best for me. I wanted to make my own decisions and at that stage decided not to rely on God. The outcome? I ended up getting hurt and it ended very messy. I ignored the Holy Spirit and had to suffer the consequences. 1 Thessalonians 5:19 says, “Do not turn away God’s Spirit; hold fast what is good.” I blatantly went against God’s commands. There is never a shortage of God’s guidance, but simply the choice from us to not hear it or to ignore it. Sometimes when we feel like the Holy Spirit isn’t guiding us; it’s merely an issue on our side. We want the answers to line up with what we want. In other words, quite often we don’t look for answers, we just look for confirmations based on OUR desires, and what WE think the answer is. Ephesians 4:30 says ‘Don't give God's Holy Spirit any reason to be upset with you. He has put his seal on you for the day you will be set free from the world of sin.’
So test everything, hold fast to what is right. Walk in the Spirit and be willing to let God lead you in directions you might not necessarily want to go. But be still before the Lord and let God do the guiding.